Ducky speaks from real life experience. Orphaned, growing up in foster care and homeless as a youth, she learned to care for herself under the harshest circumstances.

Today Ducky is an author, Sex Educator and a certified Sexual Assault & Violence Intervention Counselor. Her expansive career in the fields of sexuality and emotional intelligence makes her uniquely qualified to speak on topics of sexuality, pleasure, surviving, and finding joy and success despite it all.

Ducky’s presentations style is inclusive of all genders, orientations, abilities, ages, and experience levels. Topics can include how to rise above traumasex after cancersex after medical traumasexual healing for assault and abuse survivorshow to care for survivors in your lifesexual wellness of foster youthsafer sexself worthbeautybody imageovercoming obstacles with your body and/or relationshippleasure products, and pleasure anatomy.


  • Antioch College
  • Barnard College
  • Center for Sex & Culture
  • Chicago Ideas
  • Columbia University
  • Harvard University
  • Mount Sinai School of Medicine
  • Museum of Sex, NYC
  • New York Institute of Technology
  • New York LGBT Center
  • New York Public Library
  • New York University
  • Pace University
  • Safe Horizons Homeless Youth Project
  • San Diego State University
  • Sarah Lawrence College
  • Sexual Assault & Violence Intervention Program (SAVI)
  • Sexual Health Expo (SHE)
  • State University of New York
  • Toronto Rape Crisis Center
  • University of Alberta
  • University of California Riverside
  • University of Michigan
  • Vassar College
  • Wesleyan University
  • Western Canadain Sexual Health Conference
  • Western Washington University
  • Woodhull’s Sexual Freedom Summit


“It was phenomenal and the students really enjoyed it! Thank you so much!” -James Capshaw Smith, University of California, Riverside Residence Life / Housing Services

“We just can’t stop talking about you! The students were blown away by your engaging, honest approach & loved how relaxed and funny you made it for everyone.” -Sarah Rankin, Western Washington University Student Health Services

“Everyone really loved the event and I know all of the organizers agreed it was our favorite, most informative and hilarious event yet.” -Jenna Mellor, Harvard University student organizer

If you would like to book Ducky to speak at an upcoming event, please contact us.